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Time To Think - January 9, 2012
Submitted by autumn on Tue, 01/10/2012 - 4:42pm
We have a tradition here at Alpha to read and share books with each other – sort of like a book club or reading group. Last year, at the suggestion of Cheryl Holland (Abacus Planning Group), we spent several weeks reading and talking about the book, Time to Think, by Nancy Kline. Everyone here agrees that the book has impacted both their business and personal lives. One of the results has been a change in the way we run meetings by creating a thinking environment.
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30 Percent of Awesome!
Submitted by autumn on Thu, 10/13/2011 - 10:06am
I have been graced with celebrating my 30th birthday this year. Although I tried to act as usual around my birthday, unaffected by yet a new number to recite to anyone inquiring, I struggled a bit with this year. I’ve gone through many changes in my life -- both personally and professionally -- within the last five years. Here are some of the milestones:
- Marriage – I committed to be part of a team of two “until death do us part.”
- Move to Savannah – As a Michigan native the 1,000 mile difference has been acute at times.
- Children – My son (4years) and daughter (6months) are two of the greatest joys of my life and also the biggest mirrors!
- Employment – Worked a temp job that I hated and quit. As an office manager at a vacation rental company on Tybee the view was amazing but the sudden closing of the business left me anxious for my future. Now as COO of Alpha Financial Management, the journey thus far has been an amazing learning and growing experience and the future is bright.
Laughter and tears have been my companions but I am stronger and smarter than when I was 20 and am anticipating the future.
I read in SELF magazine of a woman who thinks of her age not as getting older but as a percentage of awesomeness. Some of the ways that I plan to get more “awesomeness” are:
- Cardio exercise 1 hour 3 days per week – Yoga 2 days, Running 1 day
- Toastmasters International weekly – Public speaking and leadership development
- Simplify my budget through weekly tracking using Mint.com by the end of December
- Reading one book every 2 weeks (current goal: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People)
- Organic and Local food for my family – Less meat, more vegetables!
What percentage of awesome are you? What ways do you plan to increase your “awesomeness” in the next year? Remember that goals should be S.M.A.R.T. – Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time-Bound. Now go and enjoy your percentage of awesomeness!
Should
Submitted by admin on Mon, 04/25/2011 - 2:06pm
Here it is Thursday of week 5 and I was slated to Blog on Monday. Annual reports got in the way! In the process I learned more about myself, especially how I handle impatience with technology that does not work exactly the way I think it should when I think it should. Oh no! There’s that word “should” again. Remember the song: Don’t should on me and I won’t should on you? A friend taught me that song many years ago while we were facilitating a course on Tithing at our church. Using my Thesaurus I looked for some alternatives — supposed to, ought to, must – all words that don’t leave me much leeway.
Following the Artist’s Way at Work and writing Morning Pages is leading me to think more creatively, to look for more than one way to do something or search for various ways to think about certain situations. One of the hardest things for me to do is to stay focused on a desired outcome instead of precise action steps. There is usually more than one way to get to the outcome. The actions steps can take many different forms. There isn’t any one way that it SHOULD be done. I learned this week that getting annual reports to our clients was the desired outcome and that there were lots of ways to get that done. I stopped “shoulding” on myself and actually had some fun with my creativity.
Ideas as Money, Money as Ideas
Submitted by admin on Mon, 04/25/2011 - 2:05pm
The introduction to The Artist’s Way at Work: Riding the Dragon begins with this phrase. The authors, Mark Bryan, Julia Cameron, and Catherine Allen, go on to say:
Intellectual capital – ideas as money, money as ideas – is today the real currency of the business world. This capital is more than technical knowledge or bits and bytes of data. It is a wide range of social, emotional, intuitive, and interpersonal skills that together comprise the creative spirit. It is our goal to bring those skills to fruition, integrate them, and reawaken that spirit.
Now who wouldn’t want to sign on to the program – a twelve-week adventure that will be like riding a dragon: thrilling, joyous, chaotic, and powerful? Everyone here at Alpha Financial Management thought it was a good idea and chose to begin the program at the beginning of the new year.
The aim of the program is to give us a more satisfying, fully creative life in which we feel a sense of camaraderie, not competition. We are promised to become more creative not only in our business life, but in our life as a whole.
I am more than just a little intimidated by the notion that I am going to be working on my creativity. What if I fail? What if my co-workers think my attempts at being creative are any thing but? Well, I am told by the authors that intellectualism is a primary block for many creative people. We are also told that we can expect our intellectual skepticism to be our adversary and constant companion throughout the twelve weeks. In my last blog I encouraged everyone by reminding you that you can do it! So now I am telling myself, I can do it.
So it is OK to be skeptical. I will just keep reminding myself that as the authors emphasize: all of us can become more creative than we already are, and this will make us happier, healthier, more productive, and more authentic in everything we do. By acting – just doing it – I can overcome the skepticism.
You can do it!
Submitted by admin on Mon, 04/25/2011 - 2:04pm
This was one of my granddaughter’s favorite phases when she was 5 or 6 years old. Everyone loved to hear her cheer us on whether we were attempting a back flip off the high diving board or baking a batch of peanut butter cookies. In her teens now, she is still just as encouraging; but when I am alone, working out or working on a difficult project, I can bring up the recording in my memory of her sweet voice to keep me going.
I’m a financial planner and love to let people know that they can do it! People do want to get things done. They want to take actions that are in harmony with their values. They want the feeling of accomplishment. They want the responsibility.
This year, I am on a quest to find more ways to help my clients realize that they can do it. They can set goals; they can make plans to accomplish them; they can engage in a process that is about creativity, balance and motivation.
Financial planning is not an event; it is a process. Making check marks along the way is important. I can be creative in the way I approach the process. I can do it! So can you!
2010 in Review
Submitted by admin on Mon, 03/28/2011 - 3:56pm
If 2008 was the year our economic foundation nearly disintegrated, and 2009 the year we took full stock of the damage, then 2010 was the year we began to build anew.
The reconstruction effort was centered in Washington, D.C., but what crystallized in the halls of Congress didn't necessarily originate nor end there. The remaking began with homeowners in Maine and Florida, unemployed autoworkers in Michigan and Ohio, families crushed under hospital bills in Iowa and California, minimum-wage earners in Montana and Oklahoma, and ordinary borrowers in Missouri and South Carolina. It spread north to New York, south to Georgia, outward to Illinois, and onward to Oregon, hitting every stop in between.





